Black Heroes – When The Normal Gets To Be Remarkable
“After Jackie”, by Carl Fussman is subtitled “Pride, Prejudice, and Baseball’s Forgotten Heroes: An Oral History”. It is hard to write a book review about “After Jackie” because “No part of this book may be used or reproduced in any manner whatsoever…” followed by the usual permission instructions. “Like a good meal, praise should be served,” I read “when it is still bubbling.” I have been waiting for two years for a reply to a permission request and it is hard to keep praise bubbling for such long periods of time. Do publishers know how difficult it is to entice people to read a book without offering up a tidbit, a little appetizer to the main course?
More white men than you think are attracted to black women. White guys are attracted to black girls of all shapes, heights, and shades. They don’t all want a black woman who is very light skinned with “white” features and long, straight hair. Don’t confuse what society’s ideal of beauty is with what an individual man’s type is. Think about it. Your ideal of an attractive man probably resembles a hairless male model, but that ideal is not necessarily the man you are attracted to in day-to-day life nor is he the type you will fall in love with. The same goes for men of any race. Their idea of ideal beauty may be an actress but that doesn’t determine who they fall in love with. It doesn’t mean they cannot possibly find you beautiful.
Most hairdressers definitely know better than to burn you with the curling iron or cause your hair to fall out. But you won’t find many hairdressers telling you how to grow long shiny hair. One reason may be because they don’t want you to start doing your hair on your own. But another reason may be that they just don’t know too much about growing long black hair themselves.
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But, as he goes in for a cheeky kiss, twiddling my thumbs and tell him no. You see, black guys dating white women hate to not be in control. He can be going crazy for you and can need to try to to anything for one more date to satisfy his ego.
We all see that many of famous black men no longer date black women. We can take Lamar Odom for example. He has been with a black woman for 12 years, has three kids with her, but never married her. He then dated an Armenian girl, Khloe Kardashian, and married her in a month. Maybe they truly are soul mates, but I have a problem with a man that can’t marry his baby’s mother that he was with for twelve years, but he can marry his new girlfriend after thirty days. It just doesn’t make sense.
In the documentary, “Good Hair”, comedian Chris Rock brings the topic of good hair out into the open for all races to ponder, learn about and discover… with an effective mix of unflinching candor and often hilarious observational comedy. Rock, via his running narrative in the film begins his journey after his own daughter asks him the question “why don’t I have good hair?” Among African-American women, “good hair” is perceived as being long, lustrous, silky… and most of all – it’s straight. And in Rock’s documentary… the quest by many dating sites for black men and white women… and even many black men, to transform one’s own coarse, curly and kinky coif into so-called “good hair” is an arduous, expensive and yes, often extremely painful physical process.
Honestly, my ideal mate has a good heart, a high level of integrity and an outstanding sense of self. God bless him if I’m able to bounce a quarter off of his abs or butt. I won’t even complain if he has the stamina of a thoroughbred. I just need him to know I’m easily turned on by respect, sincere gifts and sharing. Not to mention that I may even be willing to do a stupid pet trick if he has above average communication skills.
Many people believe that white men don’t find black women attractive. Actually, that statement is just a bullet point under the wider belief that no men other than black men are attracted to black women. The fact of the matter is, white men are attracted to black women. This understanding follows from one fundamental truth: Men are attracted to beautiful women.
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